My Daily thoughts ( Virender)

Choosing the right person to share your problem with is extremely important. Share your problem with someone who can guide you wisely. C hoosing the right person to share your problem with is extremely important. Sharing a problem is the key It is often difficult to find a solution to our own problems. When an issue belongs to someone else, we can think clearly and offer advice easily. But when the problem is ours, emotions take over, and clear thinking becomes harder. That is a simple truth we must accept: it is very challenging to solve a problem when we are personally involved in it. So what should we do? C hoosing the right person to share your problem. Share your problem with someone who can guide you wisely. Sharing reduces your stress by half—even before a solution is found. And if you do receive a solution, the remaining stress disappears even faster. Therefore, do not put unnecessary pressure on your mind to solve every personal problem alone. However,  Your problem ...

  Honesty is the best policy (No doubts)- True Story rarely seen The Honest Scrap Dealer of Faridabad In a world where stories of dishonesty often make headlines, one man from Faridabad reminded everyone that integrity still shines brighter than gold. Haji Akhtar Khan , a modest scrap dealer from Faridabad , made a choice that many would call extraordinary — he chose honesty over a fortune.                                                                                                 Hats off to Mr. Haji Akhtar Khan (Third person from Left) The Accidental Loss Just before Diwali, the Sharma family in Gurgaon decided to clear out old household junk. In the rush of cleaning and preparing for the festival, they unknowingly threw away a...

  HELPING OTHERS GIVES YOU LOTS OF BENEFITS Helping Others Gives You Lots of Benefits Helping others is one of the most meaningful actions a person can take. It not only improves the lives of those who receive help but also brings many positive effects to the person who gives it. Whether it is offering a hand to a friend, volunteering in the community, or simply showing kindness to a stranger, every act of helping others creates benefits that go far beyond the moment. Personal Benefits One of the greatest benefits of helping others is the feeling of happiness and satisfaction it brings. When we do something kind for someone else, our brains release chemicals such as dopamine and oxytocin that make us feel good. This is why many people say they feel a “helper’s high” after doing good deeds. Helping others can also reduce stress and anxiety because it shifts our focus away from our own problems and allows us to see life from a different perspective. In addition, helping others builds...

  Sabu Dastagir Indian-born American actor Got a chance to work in the Film 'Mother India' but denied due  Sabu Dastagir, usually known simply as Sabu , was an Indian-born American actor (1924 – 1963). ·        Early Life: He was born in Karapur, Mysore, India, and grew up in poverty. His life changed when documentary filmmaker Robert Flaherty discovered him while filming Elephant Boy (1937), based on Rudyard Kipling’s story Toomai of the Elephants . ·        Film Career: Sabu became internationally famous for his natural charm and screen presence. He starred in a series of British adventure films, especially with The Archers (Powell and Pressburger): o    Elephant Boy (1937) o    The Drum (1938) o    The Thief of Bagdad (1940) – one of his most famous roles o    The Jungle Book (1942) Later, he moved to Hollywood, but like many actors of color in mid-20th century cinema...

 PRAISE PEOPLE -  Formula Part -3 I praise someone, he or she becomes happy, I get a reward, I become happy, once I am happy, my mind and body are sound, I am able to crack any problem. But if you don't follow this technique, then it's very difficult to resolve any problem, if problem is yours. You have to share it with your friends and distant relations to seek solutions.  But using this formula,  it's very easy, praise someone, seek happiness, crack or resolve your problems, this  is the best formula, there is no other better formula than this.  As  we go beyond, there is nothing more  than happiness in this world, happiness is a key to success, more praise we do, more happiness  we get into our body, once your full of happiness, there is no end, you can crack any problem  in your life , that is the best part. And it's very easy to find one good point in any person, utter it - seek happiness and crack problems.       ...

CONSCIOUS MIND AND SUB-CONSCIOUS MIND Then came in mind that there is conscious mind and there is subconscious mind. Conscious and subconscious mind are two distinct levels of mental activity that operate differently but serve unique purposes. If we see conscious mind , conscious mind is basically the current awareness, what I am going to eat today, what I am going to wear, how I am going to plan my day. It is mostly concerned with the present moment. Then come to a second level that is subconscious mind. Subconscious mind holds basically long-term memories, emotional feelings, learned skills. For example, cycling, driving, swimming. I can't forget these three things. For example, I have driven a car 10 years back and then I left it.                                                                         ...