My Daily thoughts ( Virender)

Anger Management This is my true story …..on anger management and then follows the related story. How I   controlled   my anger to control my boss    about 10   years back. I went to   my Boss   to say him good morning as he had come after a little break and he just came on me   firing left and right on some small issue happened some time back. Thank God I did not react, kept   my cool but he kept scolding me for about a   minute or so . Finally he stopped firing me …that was the time when I thought I should leave . Had he been talking /firing I would not have left   his room as part   of the courtesy. I came out, went straight to my room and sat. First time in my life time someone had fired me this way….I felt bad. I would have given him back then and there but maintained my calm   by virtue of my nature.   I felt good about this characterstic of mine   for not reacting to this particular situation at once. I have analysed and also later read in some book   that anger remains fo

  Every Problem comes with Solution It is difficult to find a solution by yourself in case it is your own problem . We do have solutions to all the problems when they are not ours. If it is my own problem , I cannot find a solution for sure. We have to remember this fact that it is very difficult to find a solution if the problem is ours . So what we need to do . SHARE your Problem with somebody who can provide you   solution   instantly.   SHARING makes your Problem and stress half , forget about the solution which has not come yet. Imagine if you get solution too , your remaining stress will fly away in no time. So never ever put pressure on your mind to find a solution for the problem you own. You got to choose a right person with whom you are going to share your problem Problem can be of your wife or your child or your parents and it is the critical one. Let us say Problem is of my wife and I share this with my college friend for the solution and he leaks this in   hi