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  HOW TO DEVELOP BETTER RELATIONSHIPS WITH OTHERS It is worth   thinking about the people who share your life and your time, at home and at work, ranging from the very close people like spouse, partner, family, friends, relations, Boss,    Subordinates , Colleagues, people you work with and   your customers and contacts you see only once in your life. You can decide what kind of relationship you would like to have with all these people and how important they are in your life. You can also consider how much time you would like to give to each of them, and how they fit into your future plans and activities. Think about these things. It is a good idea to ask all of them to think about these  things  . You will be surprised what can come out of comparing notes and ideas on the present and the future. The kind of communication can lead to some clear and valuable communication lines being established and you could all be better equipped to support and help each other very well. There are som

  BRAIN POWER... ..... MIND YOUR BRAIN You can programme your brain to control and direct almost anything if you really want to . Brain Power is a sort of self governing technique and its method of use is really very simple. All you have to do is to be film star in glorious wide screen technicolor. Suppose you want to lose some weight for instance. You should do some relaxation exercise so that you are quiet  and very peaceful. Now visualize your new slim form, include every detail of how your life will be with a few pounds less to carry around. See, how other people will react to you, picture how different your life will be, imagine the whole situation as clearly and colorfully as possible. Then use the film regularly, play it through in your subconscious mind every time you are tempted to break your diet. Play it through to yourself in a relaxed situation two or three times each day or more until you have achieved your goal. You can visualize all the things and all the situations in

  WAYS OF MANAGING STRESS 1. Awareness of Stress  You should try to clear in your mind what stresses you more. What are your particular Stressors. Be on   the look out for your stress  signals so that you know as soon as you need to take action.   2,  Analysis and treatment of the actual stressor  You can improve your situation by clarifying for yourself the characteristics of your stressors and what   would happen if you ignore them. A clear overall view will give you more chance of taking the correct   action. There are four alternative  strategies for managing your stressors. a) Take action     This may mean learning new skills, acquiring information and being determined e.g if you are scared       of  speaking in public, have some guidance / tuition and do some practice. b) Withdraw      In some situations it may be more sensible to withdraw or leave rather than fight e.g if you are at             a party and not enjoying , you can leave. When someone is being abusive you should wi

STRESS PART -1   STRESS can be defined as :-  The way your body responds to the demands of your lifestyle i.e  the effects of wear and tear on your body. Most people think of stress  as a mental state but it is in fact , very largely , a physical condition. Different people can tolerate different  levels of stress. Each person needs to work on their own stress control techniques according to their tolerance levels. For example : Child will not be able to fight stress and will start crying, that is his/her mindset at that point of time whereas adult person will have more courage to fight the same very easily. Politician may do find better ways to  handle his/her stress due to his great experience through ups and downs in his/her political career. The stress response can be described as a chain reaction of changes within the body: - Faster heart beat - Shallower  and quicker breathing - Rise in blood pressure - Reduction in the efficiency of the immune system And all these above changes